"You're over me? When were you 'under' me?"

If someone was to try and follow the threads that Alanna and I have going on Gmail, they would wonder why our parents haven't considered institutionalizing us.  Here, Alanna sums up my current situation with John:

"Is it wrong that the first thing that pops into my head every time you bring up John is that you two are so Ross and Rachel?  Except in this relationship, you're the one that knows the difference between "you're" and "your".  This move will be great for you - a little distance will heal your heart, and you can be as fabulous as you were meant to be, until the day that John grows up (a lot) and makes you not want to move to France.  Or something."

She is also the same person that told me he and I were soulmates, so I kind of believe her.  Not that I want him back right now... but it's all about looking at the bigger picture.